Just yesterday, I found myself in a position where I had spent years working toward one result, only to realize that wasn’t what I truly wanted. All my work had been in vain or had it?
I had already released the need for the big house, the fancy cars, the trappings of a better life. A better life according to who? Not me, I realized.
I had to take a step back and ask myself whose beliefs were these? Were they even mine? Turns out they weren’t. They were projections of others that I had bought into believing that I would be successful when I had (fill in the blank here). Can you relate?
The truth was none of these things was ever going to make me feel successful. They just left me spinning in a circle wondering how to pay the bills, and emotionally drained. And still feeling like my best wasn’t good enough.
So when I started to spin and the emotions were coming up fast and heavy, I had to go to work on collapsing more of my...